A Chicago Christmas

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Although I only spent 5 years in the city of my birth…I remember it well!  There was a snow on the ground and more in the air, as mom announced that she had retrieved Laughing Santa…and that I must come to see him!

Before me was the little, stuffed, Chief Elf…with his brightly painted face and the crank on his back.  The more that mom turned the crank…the more heartily Old St. Nick laughed.  I watched his antics and reveled in his laughter and wondered how he was able to be so human and yet…seemed not to be so?

There were many, uniquely wrapped, gifts under the 8 foot aluminum Christmas Tree.   Pointing at the shiny artificial  Tannenbaum was a rotating light with a cover of multi-colors that diffused the spectrum of color of the subsequent glow of the beam.

We had returned from our excursion into the city where we saw the new release of Walt Disney’s movie, Lady and the Tramp.  And, the information overload for me, at 3 years old, was tremendous…and ‘visions of sugarplums danced in my head!’

Soon dad and me and mom sat under the Tree as a, mysterious visitor, took our photo…’and that is the rest of the story.’

It was after dark and our outside Christmas lights were lit…and we heard a terrible commotion on the roof of our house in Sauk Village.  It sounded like someone had been on the roof and fell off.  As dad answered the door, I heard him proclaim…’Why come right in!’  There before us…was Santa Claus in all of his red suited, and white bearded, and pipe smoking glory!

Santa laughed, a lesser laugh, than what I had expected…and he wondered if he could use our phone to call Mrs. Claus?  He went on to say that he and the Missus had been involved in a spat when he left and he needed to ensure that there was a home for him to return to…when the Christmas Eve work was completed.  Dad showed him our one phone in the hall…and he began to dial.  We gave him his privacy…he looked like that he needed it.  We heard him say, ‘but…but…but,’ on several occasions, and then he joined us in the living room.  Santa said that he had patched things up and inquired was there anything that he could do for us…before he resumed his journey.  Mom responded that she would like for him to snap a family photo of us under the Christmas Tree.  Santa took her camera and took two pictures…in case the first one did not come out right.

Dad poured the, ‘spritely old elf,’ some eggnog and asked if he wanted something stronger in it…and he smiled with the rosiest of cheeks and said, ‘absolutely!’

As Santa left, on our carport were the reindeer and a bright red glow…from Rudolph’s nose.  Donner and Vixen called out to Santa and asked, ‘where’s ours?’ referring to the spiked eggnog.

So, that is how the Brooks Family Photo…was taken.

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‘Waiting For Godot’

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‘Waiting for Godot is a play by Samuel Beckett.’    Wikipedia

”The play is a typical example of the Theatre of the Absurd, and people use the phrase ‘waiting for Godot’ to describe a situation where they are waiting for something to happen, but it probably never will…’    Wikipedia

So, I often say that I am, ‘waiting for Godot!’

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Aren’t we all waiting for many things in our lives…that have not exhibited themselves ever…or at least not on a semi-regular basis We wait for Godot when we seek justice and fair treatment for all peoples…not just the majority or those who are favored by the political class.  We wait patiently for our elected leaders to care more about their constituents than their own interests.  What a treat it would be to witness a concerted focus to address global warming!

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We live in a country that, by all available measurable criteria, live in multiple realities.  There was a famous book, many years ago, that was entitled, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.  This book demonstrated the difficulty in men and women communicating with each other and understanding and empathizing with each others point of view.  Today points of view are dictated by the television news network that you receive your news from.

When I was a teenager, men simply understood that they were going to be drafted and be sent to Vietnam.  My cousin, Billy, was drafted.  The only reason that I was not drafted was due to President Carter abolishing the draft before I became of age to go!

We all watched Walter Cronkite on CBS or Huntley and Brinkley on NBC and we basically received the same news.

We wept when President Kennedy was assassinated in Dallas, Texas on November 22, 1963 at 12:30 pm, central standard time.  Somehow, we understood that we would never be the same…and we have not!

We are told by our parents and our elders to work hard and ‘pay-our-dues’ and seek to excel in our careers!  We are assured that if we will apply ourselves…we will climb the ladder of success…and we will be another example of the American Dream!  We are told that anyone can be President of the United States and anyone can be the CEO of a Fortune 500 company…the Horatio Alger story of rags to riches…is ours for the taking….

But, what if the person who is doing the hiring…does not play by the rules?  What if it is not…what you know…but who you know….?

Institutions agonize regarding their low morale.  They engage is studies….and consultants….and large committees…too investigate and conduct in depth research into the quandary of ebbing excitement about the work-place!

The answer is simple….we all wait….much as our Jewish friends wait for the Messiah…or justice and equity and fairness…and recognition of consistent hard work and a passion for the job….and someone who has placed their heart and soul into their career….being recognized for their efforts…rather than being passed over for a friend of the boss!

We are still, ‘Waiting for Godot!’

 

 

Fall Journey

Comic text: "NOVEMBER 21, 1963: THE MISSION - WARN THE PRESIDENT!" and "JFK? We came through the mirror..."; three travelers emerge from a swirling mirror as a suited man waits beside a window marked "HOTEL TEXAS."
A retro comic panel depicts time travelers arriving in November 1963 to warn President Kennedy.

‘It is another made to order fall day,’ Chet said. ‘This is the time when I want to read write and think great thoughts,’ Chet continued. ‘Great people have great thoughts,’ Chet mused. ‘President Kennedy said, ‘Ask not what your country can do for you but what you can do for your country,’ Chet quoted. ‘Not how much money can I make,’ Chet observed. ‘I would love to ask JFK what he would have done had he not been assassinated,’ Chet proclaimed. ‘Many in that day believed he was destined for greatness,’ Chet said softly. ‘We believed he was cut down by the assassins bullet before he could achieve his mission, Chet noted. ‘Does your antique floor length magic mirror still work,’ Chet asked Neva J?

‘Yes, let us go to November 21, 1963 and talk with him in Texas,’ Neva J suggested. ‘We will go to the Hotel Texas Suite 850 in Ft. Worth where he and the First Lady were resting,’ Neva J said. ‘Jackie accompanied him to Dallas although she did not enjoy campaigning,’ Neva J continued. ‘President Kennedy had been cautioned to not go to Dallas but felt he must for the upcoming Presidential Election,’ Neva J explained. ‘Kennedy had been well received by the crowds gathered to cheer for him and shake hands with the First Lady,’ Neva J mentioned.

Comic panel dated November 21, 1963, showing two women shaking hands at Hotel Texas; text says the next day would change America forever.
A comic-style scene depicts a cordial meeting at Hotel Texas on November 21, 1963, just before a defining moment in American history.

‘Mr. President, there are three people from the future who would like a few minutes with you to hear your plans for the remainder of your term,’ Secret Service Agent Cliff Hill said. ‘They say they are from 2026 and they cannot reveal anything about the future,’ Agent Hill noted. ‘They look like regular folks,’ Agent Hill smiled.

‘Welcome come in,’ President Kennedy said. ‘Are you with a news outlet in Ft. Worth,’ Kennedy asked? ‘Jackie and I have visited with several today,’ Kennedy smiled his winning smile. ‘If you are from the future what is it like 53 years from now,’ Kennedy gently inquired. ‘As for my plans for the remainder of my term and hopefully as second term I want to end the war in Vietnam,’ Kennedy said. ‘We must learn to live in peace…’we all breathe the same air we all love our children’, Kennedy said with confidence. ‘Some of my advisors are lying to me and when I return to D.C. I am going to deal with their removal and replacement,’ Kennedy winked. ‘Remember the Bay of Pigs…what a fiasco,’ Kennedy said with emphasis. ‘We are a great country and are unworthy of lies by politicians,’ Kennedy leaned back in his special rocking chair that he had brought to Texas from the Oval Office due to his bad back. ‘I have seen first hand what war can do and I do not want it…we can be better,’ Kennedy noted with calm assurance. ‘Tell me a little about the future,’ Kennedy laughed.

President John F. Kennedy writes at a desk beside text reading “President Kennedy,” “President John F. Kennedy...,” “Step 1... complete withdrawal of US troops from Vietnam,” and “National Security Action Memorandum No. 263 (Revised): Plan for the withdrawal of 1,000 U.S. military personnel from Vietnam by end of 1963.”
A vintage comic-style illustration depicts President John F. Kennedy drafting a plan to withdraw U.S. troops from Vietnam.

‘Do not go to Dallas…you will be assassinated…Lyndon will become President…the War in Vietnam will continue for years…thousands will die,’ Neva J said.

Comic text: PRESIDENT KENNEDY RETURNED TO WASHINGTON OVERNIGHT DUE TO SECURITY CONCERNS.; WASHINGTON D.C.; TEXAS SCHOOL BOOK DEPOSITORY; DALLAS; LUNCH SPECIALS; FOILED IN HIS ASSASSINATION ATTEMPT.; THE DALLAS REPORTER SAID, AS PEOPLE STOOD BY THE DALLAS BOOK DEPOSITORY...; ...AND LEE HARVEY OSWALD WENT TO LUNCH.
A vintage comic-style panel connects Kennedy’s overnight return, Dallas reporting, and Oswald’s lunch stop.

‘Our trip to Texas changed everything,’ Jane said. ‘Trump did not become President,’ Jane continued. ‘We did not lose confidence in our Presidents or government truth became common and service essential to politics,’ Jane danced on one foot and then the other. ‘JFK is our longest living President at 109 and he still sails,’ Jane laughed.

Comic panel of a sailor steering a boat off Hyannis Port, with speech and caption text
A weathered sailor steers through choppy waters off Hyannis Port as autumn approaches.

Fall Splendor

Comic panel reading “BROOKS POND AUTUMN” with a boy, two dogs, and an older man by a sunset lake.
A joyful autumn scene shows a boy fetching a stick for his playful dog while an older man watches with his small dog by Brooks Pond.

Last week the temperature was 100, today it is 68. Fall is here. A gloomy cloud covered day, my kind of weather. Jonathon and I are enjoying a cup of coffee. Coffee is good in the fall. Everything is good in the fall. Thoughts of life and our place in it. Hope that lifts us up and carries us forward. Peace you can feel. The birds are traveling. They stop by Brooks Pond. Tired from the flight but not home yet. The little boy is walking his dog. His class did not get to go out today for recess. He did not like that. The Old Man ordered a Fontanini Nativity piece yesterday and received it today. Quick turn around. I saw a dear lady at church the other day. I considered how sweet she was an angel on earth. Today she went home.

We think about what is before our eyes. If it is crude brusque insipid we feel the world is a bad place. ‘As a man thinks so is he.’ We must lift our eyes to the hills and sky. So much more is right than wrong.

The days are getting shorter…faster. Things seem new for the old. A revelation for the senses and a realization that all has not been learned. Surrounded by beauty and never seeing it. Held by joy and never feeling it. Spoken to by angels and having difficulty hearing.

Comic panels with rainy street scenes and text: “It’s all just... more of the same...”; “Nothing to see here...”; “Listen to the harmony of the stones, child... can you hear the whispers of time?”; “Ugh, can’t believe I lost my favorite pen... where did I put it?”; “Peace can be found in the smallest moment... open your heart to the wonder that is around you...” and “My back is acting up again... this book is so boring.”
Amid a crowded rainy street, ordinary moments hint at magic, memory, and wonder.

There he was first grade. It was chilly walking to school. The boy hoped mom would be fine on her own until he returned. They raised each other. The bulletin board was full of pumpkins, ghosts, a witch on a broom with a funny smile. Everyone was all a twitter about their lives and what was coming next. Bonfires and hayrides, roasting marshmallows and candy corn. Scary movies Frankenstein and Dracula. Must purchase a Halloween Costume at Ben Franklin Dime Store. There were a lot of costumes. You could be anything on Halloween. The sky was the limit. The boy bought a JFK mask and costume which was an image of a man wearing a suit and tie on a flimsy cloth that covered your front and tied behind your neck like a hospital gown. The boy understood hospital gowns. He had been in the hospital. People laughed and called him Mr. President as they placed candy in his plastic Jack-O-Lantern.

Comic panel reading October 1962 and Trick or Treat, with man carrying pumpkin bucket
A comic-style 1962 Halloween scene shows a suited man carrying a jack-o’-lantern bucket through an autumn neighborhood.

Choices, which do you choose? It is good to have choices. We have many. Choices lead us to our sense of place. Who we are is a culmination of our choices. The path of acceptance is a good road. The little boy found that to be true many years ago. He was a bit afraid the first day of school he did not know anyone no one knew him. The girl sitting next to him had lovely blonde hair and seemed serene. Teacher asked the girl if she needed to visit the restroom? She nodded and as she left the room he noticed a puddle of liquid under her desk. We often appear to be put together and ready to rumble but inside we are in distress.

Comic collage of people experiencing stress with text: “WHAT DO I DO?”, “INNER CHAOS,” “TOO MUCH STRESS,” “CONFLICT!,” “I CAN’T TAKE IT!,” “THE PRESSURE IS REAL,” and “KEEP IT TOGETHER.”
A comic-style scene portrays people coping with stress, pressure, and inner conflict in everyday life.

The Whispers

Shape-shifting house with whispering faces

‘Friday night we will visit the Magic House,’ Chet said. ‘It sets at the outskirts of town next to the cemetery,’ Chet continued. ‘The look of it is plain but mystery resides within,’ Chet noted with a sly grin. ‘The carvings on the walls the floors and the ceilings are more than can be explained,’ Chet shivered. ‘There is a carved glass bowl on the porch with rosaries in it for each person to take before entering,’ Chet informed. ‘Buddy and Tom visited the House by the Cemetery last Friday and have not been heard from for the past few days,’ Chet said softly. ‘I passed the house one time and it was Victorian the next time it was Ranch Style then A Frame,’ Chet said with saucer eyes. ‘It is a shape shifting house,’ Chet laughed.

Three people taking rosaries in strange house

‘Bill and I visited the House in the 40s and found it both delightful and a bit spooky,’ Neva J said. ‘We were greeted by a British Butler named Jack he invited us in and we sat on a Victorian sofa under candle light,’ Neva J continued. ‘There was whispering in the room but I could not quite hear what the voices were saying,’ Neva J mused. ‘A tall lovely woman invited us to take a tour with her through out the abode,’ Neva J grinned. ‘Each room appeared small until after we entered when it grew in size with the door to it seeming a mile away although we had just entered,’ Neva J explained. ‘The rooms were color themed we stopped in the red room where we sat on beautiful red velvet chairs and drank hot chocolate,’ Neva J remembered. ‘I noticed as I talked with Bill that he seemed smaller and yet very animated he was sinking into the red velvet with joy,’ Neva J laughed. ‘I quickly got up but Bill was gone so I left or tried to at least,’ Neva J said fearfully. ‘There was no longer a door the woman said to follow her and we began to walk down through the floor on unseen steps,’ Neva J continued. ‘Suddenly I was outside again and Bill was still sunk in the red velvet chair as far as I know,’ Neva J said with a shrug.

Butler and elegant woman lure guests inside

‘I wonder if this was a good idea it is Halloween Season but I don’t want to get lost in velvet,’ Jane said. ‘The lights are on cookies on the table hot cider to drink 1940’s music playing on the Victrola,’ Jane noticed. ‘Look there is someone coming he looks like Bill,’ Jane said. ‘I wonder if he has been here since he was lost in the red velvet in the 40s,’ Jane mused. ‘He seems bright eyed and bushy tailed,’ Jane observed.

‘Neva J your hair has turned white over night,’ Bill said. ‘Each time I looked for you for the door the Whispers told me not yet it is not time,’ Bill continued. ‘The Whispers admonished me to be patient and have another Dirty Martini wait as time has no meaning,’ Bill said. ‘Has it been a few days or perhaps a week,’ Bill asked? It seems I just got here and liked it so well I could not or did not leave,’ Bill noted. ‘The faces carved in the walls the floor the ceiling are the Whisperer’s, Bill winked with the knowledge. ‘The Whisperers like me we talk for hours about the world and the problems in it,’ Bill reflected. ‘They do not want me to tell you guys the secret but I must this is our new home take a seat in the red velvet chairs and relax we have nothing but time,’ Bill said with a macabre laugh.

Four people sinking into velvet chairs

An Evening With Seinfeld

Comic panel text: “LIVE AT THE FOX THEATRE, ST. LOUIS”; comedian says “…and what’s with the *airline* food?!” Audience member replies “*Hah haaa! Heh! Can’t breathe... so funny...*”; caption: “…and for a moment, the ache in his back was gone, replaced by the sheer, unbridled joy of a good laugh.”
A comedian’s airline-food joke sparks contagious laughter at the Fox Theatre in St. Louis.

Saturday evening was a fun time. Jerry Seinfeld was performing at the Fox Theatre MJ and I were there. The Fabulous Fox is indeed fabulous! The Fox is a restored 1920s Movie Palace. It is a lovely building. We had good seats with plenty of leg room said the Old Man who has cramped his legs into small spaces all of his life. We saw our friends Lee and Jim at Stage Left and enjoyed a nice visit. Seinfeld brought me out of feeling punk to glorious laughter. Jerry has that ability. It was the third time we had seen him perform and he does not disappoint. He is a master of observational humor. I laughed so hard I was not aware of the point I felt better. Seinfeld’s observances on mundane daily events is priceless. He causes the listener to see the world with a new set of eyes.

Comic panel titled "JERRY SEINFELD: THE PHONE CALLS! HA HA HA!" showing a comedian onstage saying, "And have you noticed people and their cell phones? They’re like, ‘Look at me, I’m talking to a ghost!’" Audience speech bubbles read, "He’s so right! It’s so true!" and "Oh, that Jerry! He’s got a point!"
A comedian jokes about people treating cell-phone conversations like calls from ghosts as the audience laughs along.

St. Charles is a destination for the Brooks and has been for many years. The quaint town was once the Capitol of Missouri. MJ and I noticed that either the brick sidewalks are becoming more uneven or we are getting older. Last year about this time I purchased a Fontanini Nativity Set beginning with the Holy Family and Three Wisemen. I was so pleased to find three more Wisemen to add to my special Nativity set. In view of the fact that I had three Wisemen already the next three will accompany our Holy Family Threesome that we got in Florence several years ago.

Comic scene reads: “An old collector, in search of wise men on the festive, historic streets of St. Charles, Missouri”; “...must find more wise figures...for my small creche before the Holy Night”; storefront signs say “ST. CHARLES ANTIQUES,” “NATIVITY FIGURES,” and “WISEMEN NEEDED—APPLY WITHIN.”
An old collector searches St. Charles for wise figures to complete a small Christmas creche.

St. Louis is our city. We are 100 miles for it while 300 miles separate us from Chicago. Folks in St. Louis are no different than people in Carbondale. Friendly helpful with a few sourpusses.

Comic panels show a couple walking through autumn streets and a park, with text about life’s surprises.
A couple explores an autumn neighborhood and park, wondering what unexpected moments await around each corner.

Fall air has returned to us. The Old Man’s spirits have risen. The plans and schemes of my favorite time of year are here. Soon Turner Classic Movies will play the old Universal Theatre’s Monster movies. House will be festooned with Halloween lights which is a custom not observed in my early life. I think Halloween Lights are an attempt to bring Christmas on early. I heard a woman answer to the question ‘How are you,’ with her response ‘Living Life.’ How perfect I thought. We are about the business of living life. It comes with surprises around every corner including Six Wisemen.

Comic scene with Christmas collectibles, holiday merchandise, nativity figures, and text: “ANOTHER SET FOR THE COLLECTION,” “you can never have too many wisemen,” “You’re adding to a large collection then, I assume!,” “NATIVITY FIGURES & MORE,” “$39.99,” and “$10.00 each! Excellent choice!”
A festive customer adds another set of wise men to his growing Christmas collection.

Silly Little Lives

STILL KICKING: THE POWER OF PLAY! diverse senior citizens appreciate the role of silliness in their life; GIGGLE! You're never too old to goof around! A little nonsense keeps the spirit young! Silliness is the best medicine! Keeps the cobwebs out of the brain! Keeps things light, you know? Silly, made-up song! HA HA HA! FUN! TWEET! SPLASH! BZZZ!
Older adults share laughter, games, music, and playful moments together in a sunny park.

Doughnuts are a great way to start the morning. The joy of simple things. I read that we should enjoy our silly little lives they are ours. As the years progress I learn to let me be me. Be good to all living things and be myself. Worry not what people think as long as I am authentic. It is a liberating philosophy. Most of what worries us never comes to past. The easy sense of place living life as it comes is fun. Be ready for anything. Be ready to be silly. Be ready for folks to laugh with you or at you. Laughter is good medicine.

Comic scene labeled CENTRAL PARK, NYC, with three friends laughing; text reads LAUGHTER IS GOOD MEDICINE!, HEEHEE!, Hahaha!, Hahaha!, and KRAK!
Friends share a joyful laugh together on a sunny day in Central Park.

Fall helps our silliness come to the surface. It is hard to be sober stoic business like when the Headless Horseman is riding by the campfire. Smores make you smile. Jack-O-Lanterns have a winning grin. St. Louis is a good place to enjoy life. We have been going there quite often this year. Sometime I feel a little silly in St. Louis. It is a good place to be silly.

Children and an older man watch a headless horseman; text reads “HA HA!”, “He doesn’t have a HEAD!”, and “Look at him go!”
Children laugh around a campfire as a headless horseman charges through the moonlit forest.

Life brings some pain. Stress is hard to avoid. Friends come and go in the chapters of our life. Silliness and a light hearted attitude stays with you throughout the days. Comedy is vital to a balanced journey. I am a Seinfeld fan. MJ and I are slated to see him live tonight. We saw him live in Paducah, Kentucky about 20 years ago. The Seinfeld show plays often when I am in charge of the TV.

Audience applauding comedian onstage at St. Louis Fox Theatre
A delighted audience applauds a comedian performing beneath the Fox Theatre’s ornate architecture.

I say or respond to others something silly much of the day and night. I trained myself to look on the funny side of life as a child when so much of my surroundings were not so funny. My silly little responses are primarily designed to cause others to feel better uplifted secure. There is more than one way to approach problems.

Comic panel: Barnaby dances with a cane as bystanders laugh and ask, “What’s his angle? He’s always up to something…”, “I don’t trust him. I’m act.”, “I don’t trust Must be an act.”, “Is it a distraction? What’s he hiding?”, “Hidden agenda, for sure!”, “Hahaha!”, “Look at old Barnaby, he’s a riot!”, “Just a bit of fun, eh?”, “HAHA!”, “GUFFAW!”, “CHUCKLE!”, and “What an old silly!”
A lively comic scene shows Barnaby joking in the street while onlookers question his motives.

So be a little silly. It is good for the soul. Some will like your upbeat personality while others will wonder what your hidden agenda is. If you think about it that is a good reason to be Silly!

Arthur dances with bananas while seated friends laugh and applaud; text reads “Arthur: Always making us smile!” and “Do the banana-moose dance! Hehe!”
Arthur makes everyone laugh as he dances with bananas at the community gathering.